Episode 305

The Journey To Social Fluency : Small Steps, Big Impact with Devon Ash

Published on: 7th May, 2024

Devon Ash joins us to share about social fluency and human connection. From moving throughout his childhood on a yearly basis and then having skin cancer at the young age of 23, he learned practical strategies for reading the room, understanding body language, high-status humor and enhancing conversational agility. Devon then moved on to helping countless individuals navigate social situations with confidence and authenticity.

Devon discusses the importance of facing discomfort as a means to build confidence and resilience. He explains that the journey of social fluency is slow and steady, and allowing yourself to gradually face small fears can lead to significant personal transformation. Devon exposes the damage we inflict from making self-deprecating jokes compared with boosting your self-confidence through high-level humor. Devon stresses the significance of taking action regardless of your current situation or experience level, that starting somewhere and making consistent efforts is better than waiting for the perfect moment.

In this episode, you will be able to:

·      Mastering social fluency skills for effortless interactions and meaningful connections.

·      Changing your perception by ditching self-deprecating jokes and boosting your self-confidence.

·      Projecting confidence and charisma in social situations for more fulfilling interactions.

·      Unveiling the power of social connections for personal growth and professional success.

·      Unleashing high-status humor techniques to captivate and engage your audience.


The key moments in this episode are:

00:10:04 – What is Social Fluency

00:15:52 - Overcoming Ingrained Behavior

00:18:08 - Seeking Acceptance and Self-Worth

00:26:44 - Creating Change through Behavior

00:31:48 - Developing a Healthy Self-Worth

00:33:43 - Understanding Status and Self-Perception

00:34:27 - Overcoming Discomfort through Daily Challenges

00:36:24 - Gradual Progress and Building Endurance


Connect with Devon Ash

Website

http://www.socialfluency.com/

 

LinkedIn

https://www.linkedin.com/in/socialfluency

 

Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/social_fluency/

 

Facebook

https://www.facebook.com/devon.ash

 

Connect with Mike Forrester

Podcast Website

https://LivingFearlessTodayPodcast.com

 

Coaching Website

https://www.hicoachmike.com/

 

LinkedIn

https://www.linkedin.com/in/hicoachmike/

 

Youtube

https://www.youtube.com/@hicoachmike

 

Facebook

https://www.facebook.com/hicoachmike

 

Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/hicoachmike

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Living Fearless Today
Helping men live fully alive, boldly and courageously
Do you feel overwhelmed when making decisions? Struggle to take action in your personal life or career? Think you're alone in these situations? You're not! In fact, you're in good company. 
 
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Mike Forrester

Mike Forrester is a men's transformation coach, founder of the Living Fearless coaching programs, and host of the Living Fearless Today podcast. His insights, methods and stories of overcoming childhood trauma, dyslexia and loss of loved ones have been featured on various podcasts, including Hanging Onto Hope, Extreme Health, Own Your Life Own Your Career and Think Unbroken.