Episode 317

Learning to Say No: Setting Boundaries for Yourself and Others with Matt Gerlach

Published on: 16th July, 2024

Do you ever feel like you're constantly giving but not getting the respect or support you deserve? Are you left feeling drained, unappreciated, and stuck in the same cycle with no hope for change? Matt Gerlach joins to share how he broke this cycle and began setting healthy boundaries. It wasn't easy learning to say no, but it was pivotal in him discovering who he is and standing by what's important to him.

As Matt focused on implementing boundaries, both personally and professionally, he discovered his worth and began addressing financial fears that were subconsciously impacting his decisions and actions. Matt is now living from a place of resiliency and confidence, continuing to experience personal growth and helping others to bring about change within their own lives.

In this episode, you will be able to:

· Setting healthy boundaries in relationships for improved personal well-being and happier connections.

· Discover financial fears and gain an understanding of how they can negatively impact your life without your awareness of the fears.

· Focus on your personal development and improve your position in the professional environment.

· Work through life transitions with confidence and resilience, empowering yourself to overcome new challenges.

The key moments in this episode are:

00:09:39 - Importance of Self-Reflection and Patience

00:14:35 - Importance of Goal Setting

00:25:29 - Self-Discovery and Personal Growth

00:27:29 - Financial Trauma and Career Change

00:32:24 - Healing Journey and Setting Boundaries

00:39:51 - Understanding Anxiety and Healing

00:42:27 - Setting Boundaries in Business

Connect with Matt Gerlach

Website

https://www.mattgerlach.com

LinkedIn

linkedin.com/in/matt-gerlach/

Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/iammattgerlach/

Facebook

facebook.com/mattggerlach

Connect with Mike Forrester

Podcast Website

https://LivingFearlessTodayPodcast.com

Coaching Website

https://www.hicoachmike.com/

LinkedIn

https://www.linkedin.com/in/hicoachmike/

Youtube

https://www.youtube.com/@hicoachmike

Facebook

https://www.facebook.com/hicoachmike

Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/hicoachmike

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About the Podcast

Living Fearless Today
Helping men break generational cycles, heal the father wound, and become a better husband and dad.
You swore you'd be a different kind of father than the one who raised you. Then one day you caught his words and tone coming out of your mouth. You felt the same distance creep in at home, and wondered how much of him you're still carrying despite the promise you made to yourself.

Living Fearless Today is a podcast for men who are done repeating the patterns they grew up with. Host Mike Forrester has stood where you're standing. Every week he brings honest conversations and practical tools for the parts of a man's life that rarely get said out loud: the father wound you never named, the anger that shows up with the people you love most, the marriage that's gone quiet, and the man you still want to become.

The show helps you understand the past that shaped you. Then you take an honest look at where you stand today as a husband, a father, and a man. From there you start building the future you actually want, one choice at a time, instead of drifting into the one you were handed and currently living out.

Episodes cover identity, anger, shame, marriage and fatherhood, relationships, self-worth, courage, emotional intelligence, legacy and purpose, and the brotherhood that the vast majority of men are missing. If you've looked for how to break generational cycles, face a father wound, handle anger as a dad, or become a better husband and father, start here.

The cycle can end with you. Press play and take the first step toward becoming the man you needed when you were young.

About your host

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Mike Forrester

Mike Forrester is a men's transformation coach, founder of the Living Fearless coaching programs, and host of the Living Fearless Today podcast. His insights, methods and stories of overcoming childhood trauma, dyslexia and loss of loved ones have been featured on various podcasts, including Hanging Onto Hope, Extreme Health, Own Your Life Own Your Career and Think Unbroken.